“ You’ve got to be some kind of Scrooge, some kind of high middlebrow purist, if you don’t think that the makers of “The Chef Jeff Project” have positioned themselves a little closer to heaven than the people behind, say, “A Shot at Love With Tila Tequila.” “The Chef Jeff Project,” a new series beginning Sunday on the Food Network, feels like reality TV giving back and compensating for a hundred prior sins.”